There comes a time in your life when you feel exhausted from trying to help people that are not trying to help themselves. When you are pushing hard for them but they think you are doing it for props or points on your side. If this was a child with this struggle I would understand but we are dealing with grown ass adults who act like they are the only ones that are going through changes as if the people who are trying to help them have not had there share of obstacles. Yes we have, we just did things that we were trying to show them how to do. Overcome adversity.
Ever find yourself feeling guilty or sad for someone you care about situations as if you done something to contribute to them being in it? That feeling is called Co- Dependence. If you keep putting in the work that they are suppose to be doing themselves you are always gonna feel like you may be the cause of their struggle to get to the next level. You have to let go and let them hit rock bottom if they do not want to follow the blueprint you laid out for them to prevent them from going through the things you went through. If they can’t see what your intentions are then remove yourself from that person situation until they come around by finding the error of their ways. I know it will feel strange and funny removing yourself but at the end of the day you want to make sure you have your own best interest at heart. Do it for you, remove yourself until the person comes back believing in themselves with a searching for a sense of purpose. Don’t take on other people problems.