Many Children today come from broken homes of challenges and broken promises. This makes it so hard for the child to achieve their full potential due to broken promises of a single parent environment whereas the parents find it hard to work past their issues. Trust me, I am a product of this environment. Though it may seem like a grown person that was raised with a single parent has made a breakthrough in that missing void of the absent parent, there is still a knot in their stomach, hurt in their spirit and a feeling of something lost. A incompleteness there.
I have seen professionals, rich people on interviews and married couples swell up as soon as you mention their childhood in a single family home. Their whole demeanor change. I say this to say that it is so important for the parents to understand that it is not you when a child is involved in the matrix of your relationship issues. They should not even feel the vibes you. Both are throwing off each other because they pick up words and action quicker than you think. The both of you should be mapping out a strategy on how to effectively show love and support to your child who did not asked to be here but was created by the two of you. Changing the mindset of our children today means raising them the way they are supposed to do raised, as a Village- Unit – Family – Together -Unselfishly.