Trusting Again After Betrayal

Many  times in our life we feel like our trust have been compromised when dealing with relationships whether they are with your mate or a family member. So then how do we deal with regaining ones trust and respect back to the point where you are not feeling a certain type of way when you see that person? Needless to say, there is no way you remove the hurt and distrust from your feeling and emotions without questioning how can I move on from this betrayal feeling that is sticking to me? No that trust is not just something you can skip over in your life because it is an important ingredient in dealing with relationships which is to me, is a (Foundation). Without this foundation it would be very difficult to move on with that relationship. Once trust is broken it is very hard to rebuild it but, it can be done by showing and proving yourself all over again. For some people this can be hard because it is like starting all over again and the person who betrayed you does not take this as serious as the person who was betrayed and so this is where the journey begins. It is easy to say I forgive you but it is very hard to forget because of the pain it put you through. You don’t want to experience that anymore so you proceed with this relationship with caution. My advice to anyone who feel that their trust is going to be compromised, put your trust in the Lord and guide your life through his scriptures which will show you how to deal with life and human errors, no one in this world is perfect so when you go into a relationship thinking this way, you are setting yourself up for disappointment. I wish I could tell you otherwise but the truth is that disappointment, rejection, fear, and abandonment are all part of the deal in relationships. We feel these feelings regardless of who we are with. Not because we are with untrustworthy people, but because we are humans. Trusting is a decision you must make knowing that there aren’t any guarantees. God Bless