Learning how to let go, someone we used to love or we still love, is one of the greatest lessons we need to learn. Many are the times we are stuck in an abusive relationship or kind of relationship we know won’t work and we have this crazy idea that maybe, just maybe, somehow, some way, things are going to work. How often does it work?
The best thing you can ever do is letting go a relationship that is not working. It’s the best thing ever. We all know. It’s hard to let go, someone, even when your instincts or life is telling you to do so, it’s still very hard. For some unknown reason, you still think that after some time, he will be there for you even if you know that won’t happen, but you are still buying time, hoping, not willing to surrender.
Life only gives us what we need and at the time we need, so when life is showing you the door to walk out and telling you that your relationship is not good enough for you, listen and surrender. If you look back, you will see the relationship was over long before you decided to surrender. The moment you surrender, you are free to be who you are and you can meet your real star. Now that is called moving on to the next level of healthiness physically, mentally and spiritually.