Have you ever spent a long part of your life being very particular about the way you wanted things go in choosing love? Things that you would and would not accept in order to have the perfect life. Yes, I was one of them too. It took a long time for me to find out that nothing is perfect and you will never get everything you ask for in your lifetime. The only thing that is guaranteed in life is that Lord is Christ and all sins will be forgiven through confession and submitting to His Holiness. I Say this to say that everyone can experience love once you are not afraid of stepping out of your comfort zone. People today are looking for something secure, responsible, loyal and trustworthy. Everything else is just sprinkles on top of the ice cream, they want want what’s under that, ( The Maine Ingredients).
Trust me when I say you are not the only one who have been in relationships where your feelings were hurt or you were disrespected, lied to, mentally or physically abuse, we are all human and this are experience that is hard to avoid running away from due to the way people were treated in their past and so you just have to know how to deal with it by getting out of then, you will have to know how to carry it so that it won’t affect the way you go into the next relationship the way it was for you in the prior one you left. Experience means you have knowledge of the signs and symptoms that can arise entering back into the dating scene. This experience can help you choose a mate wisely next time around by speaking your truth and listening wisely to the response. This is stepping outside the box, doing something you wouldn’t normally do for a better result. I you are going through life and every day feel the same, think about it, what have you changed? Why would you feel different if you have not done anything to feel that way. Feeling and emotions are based off what ever you make happen.
If you do the same thing everyday then don’t expect change. If you wake up and plan your day out to do something better today than you did yesterday, this is thinking outside the box, this is challenging yourself, this is another form of finding the love and passion of self. Thinking outside the box can only give you the experience of pros and cons which will get you in the right space when your learn from both of them. Thank you and have a blessed day.